Deed vs Doer

3 Feb

“Thou hast rightly judged.” ~Jesus Christ (Luke 7:43)

Deed vs Doer

“Don’t judge me!” we hear many say
To those who choose to speak
Against a deed that is selfish
And demands a critique

“The Bible tells us not to judge!”
Some like to remind us
“Mathew 7:1, so there’s
Nothing here to discuss!”

So much of anger is caused by
Such shallow, obtuse  thought
I’d like remind that there’s more
On judgement to be taught

I tell them, “Keep going and quote
Verse seven, two to five
About how the judgement you use
Will your own judgement drive

And then there’s John seven: two four
Where in the Holy Book
Jesus said to ‘judge correctly’
Not just based on look

Then there is Corinthians
Where verse six chapter two
Says that judging little matters
Is not above you

Philippians verse seven: one
While Paul sat there in jail
He said that he was right to judge
Because of this detail:

He said that his captors were in
His heart as much as bonds
But often times the one who’s judged
Gets upset and responds

With ego, sensitivity
They feel they’re put on trial
The blow things out of proportion
And they become hostile

The point to all of these verses
And many more not quoted
Is to remember that it’s just
The deed that’s being noted

The deed is judged, not the doer
The choice and not the chooser
Behavior, not the person and
The means and not the user

But many cannot separate
They take it personal
They think it’s all or nothing and
They feel their ego’s pull

They cannot focus on one thing
And their minds run away
“Focus!” we must remind them
And not let topic sway

“Relax, breathe deep, you’re not on trial
You are not on review
It’s just your deed, your choice, behavior
Separate the two

Do not be so sensitive
And don’t claim perfection
Don’t lose focus and accuse
What others may have done

All of that’s the ego which
Does not want you to hear
Things that will threaten to make
Your comfort disappear

And in exchange, you may just learn
What true judgement’s about
Advice from someone who wants you
To grow, not whine and pout

                                ~Miro

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2 Responses to “Deed vs Doer”

  1. granbee February 3, 2012 at 2:51 pm #

    Bless you, dear warrior–you have just made me stronger and much better able to take postive cricticism of some of my choices, even when I know the criticizer is not aware of the whole picture, so cannot perceive why certain choices are good for me. And there IS a time and season for everything, we know.

  2. Sue Dreamwalker February 4, 2012 at 10:10 am #

    Excellent Miro, Often I have been judged… And I have seen judgments many times as I worked with adults who had learning difficulties as others thought them as low life.. and how dare you bring them inside a cafe to sit next to me… I have seen judgements as we pass those begging in the street.. and I have seen judgments as we call our younger generation.. We have much to learn,, …. And should always Look in the Mirror.. before we start to judge others..
    Gratitude and Peace.. ~Sue Dreamwalker

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